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Parrot Owners Prepared Pack for Lost Birds,
and Instructions/Advice on how to find a lost Bird. Introduction: I have compiled this document from sources all over the internet. And I have compiled it because sadly much of the advice came only after I lost my parrot. Many of the good resources I have used appear on websites, hard to find in searches, much of the advice came from one page articles that offered only a fraction of the advice and details this document has. I have attempted to cite sources where possible, I have copied copyrighted material with permission, as well as add my own insight and suggestions and comments I received from hundreds of emails. And I have done this because I experience the anguish of losing my companion Tui. I did manage to get world wide attention and response to my loss. I would like to share this information so that others are in a position to have as much resources and information, to be prepared to limit the chances of it happening to them, and help if they lose their bird. I am a logical realist, and so I have included in this document as much information as I could about the realism of losing a bird. While many well intentioned people will offer support and encouragement; I honestly believe that if knowing an unpleasant fact improves the chances of recovery just 1%, almost all loving owners will be prepared to suffer this to improve the chances of recovery. Preparation Pack and Ideas Do this now, before your grief and other non empowering mental states you will experience during the first critical time of your search will impede rational and productive thoughts and actions. These ideas are not presented in any order of importance. They are all important, do as many as you can. If you have a computer, make a folder containing all the details. Upload that folder to any free service such as yahoo or hotmail that will allow you to store information so that you have a back up as well as a copy on your computer. Otherwise a hard copy will work as well. The key point is to be prepared. Join online forums for your bird. Find Quality Training Advice: http://www.goodbirdinc.com/ http://pets.groups.yahoo.com/group/bird-click/
http://likambo.com/flyblog/?page_id=30 Leg Bands & ID Chips: Get an ID Chip! The cost of getting one is around $50 (they are free from some animal shelters) is nothing compared to the anguish you will face, or the money and time you will spend while searching. There are only a couple of different types and most Vets and shelters have both scanners. They are getting smaller now so most sized birds can have them implanted. When the technology comes about that the chips have GSP in them, fork out the extra! To be able to follow your bird online and see where it is, will increase the chances of recovery to almost 100% Teach your Bird Contact Information: Video and Sound Recordings: Posters and Fliers: (See end of document for sample) Collect Contact details of people to Notify: Many websites and articles include lists of who to contact, including: Animal control Have a saved email in draft form, perhaps make a mailing list of email addresses so that you can hit everyone in one go immediately. The more time your sitting at your computer sending out emails the less time your out looking. Having said that, you can spread the word so much faster being online than walking the streets over and over. Which ever one your spending time doing you will no doubt feel guilty your not doing the other as well initially. Socialize your Bird to other people. Train to come on command: Return Command aka Strong Recall Socialize to outdoors Also, be sure to ALWAYS attach the end of the leash to yourself for example to a belt loop or backpack using a secure hook. If your bird startles, it is possible you may too, and holding a leash in your hand or even having it looped around your wrist is not enough. A harness is only as secure as what it's attached to. To Clip or not to Clip? This is an issue that I honestly believe is based
on where you are. America in general is big on clipping wings and people suggesting
it have decent reasons for it. In other parts of the world it is almost consider
cruelty to animals to clip wings. For my part, I saw research that indicated
that bird intelligence is closely related to its ability to fly its first
couple of years. (And yes if you look into neuro plasticity research this appears
to be true). If a parrot catches wind it is going to fly, clipped or not. The
question is then, do you want a bird who is clipped and unable to avoid dangers
or one that can fly and be safer. I think this greatly depends on where you
live. Factors would include the amount of trees in the area, predators, height
of buildings etc. I was going to get around to clipping the wings since Tui
was almost three. I never did because I figured she pants after 30 seconds of
house flying she would never go far outside. Big error on my part, but at the
same time I believe one of the reason Tui was so smart was because she was flighted.
This question of clipping is something you must make yourself. Research the
arguments for and against Once your Bird flies the coup! Immediate
Action! Bird is flying away Searching for your bird Look carefully in areas close by (within 1 square mile). Parrots usually do not go far unless, blown by the wind, chased by a bird of prey or extremely frightened. Also your parrot may see you before you see it. In this case, parrots are sometimes very quiet. This is because your presence has allowed the bird to relax. Therefore look carefully. Despite some parrots bright colors, they can be very difficult to see in trees. Look for movement buried in the trees as opposed to your whole bird just sitting there. You have located the bird, but he is out of reach If the bird has just landed Try to lure your bird to fly or climb to branches/objects that are similar to those upon which he is sitting if possible. A bird may be too frightened to climb onto a distinctly different perch. (For example, the bird might be afraid to climb off of a tree onto a fence.) If you have no other option, expect the process to be slower and be patient with your bird as he builds his confidence. He may also fly again if he touches the new perch and is frightened by it. Do not raise unfamiliar objects up to your bird to have it step onto it. More than likely this will only scare your bird to fly farther away. If you have a familiar item, you may have chance that the bird will step onto it. Keep in mind things like ladders, people climbing trees, cherry pickers etc. may also scare your bird. Go extremely slowly if you resort to using these items. Stop if the bird looks like it wants to fly away. Try to call your bird down when he looks like he is ready to try to come down. Do not constantly call. On occasion hide nearby from the bird. This will create a level of anxiety in the bird which may cause it to try to come to you. Usually the bird will scream and or start moving around a lot when you hide for a few minutes. When you reappear, he may try to come down. If you hear your bird screaming while you are hiding, he may be ready to fly or is already in the air. Come out of hiding right away. Most parrots scream when they are flying in this type of situation. Birds also often relieve themselves and scream right before they fly. Be alert for this. You may need to see where your bird flies. Be ready to run if necessary. Avoid having a crowd of people around the bird's favorite person. A scared bird will not want to fly into a crowd of strangers. Give the bird's favorite person lots of room. In a real emergencey water hoses do work to slow an untrained flighted bird if you can spray him shortly after his escape. Hit him with as much water as you can all at once. He is heavy from not having exercise, and the water throws it off enough to ground it for a bit. Do not drench just before dark unless you are sure you can get your bird back.
Once you decide the Bird is lost after the initial Search .. Or you can not see where it landed! Remember the "One Mile/One Month Rule" Familiar Surroundings: Make Some Noise: Let People Know: Contact as many of the following as you can Neighbors: First place flyers in mailboxes as you place posters around the neighborhood, while calling out your birds name. Talk to as many people as you can while your out looking. Many a time I got annoyed I would have to talk to someone for 5-10 minutes explaining how much the bird meant to me, what it might say, what it looked like when I thought I could spend my time better looking myself. But the next day I would hear them calling them my birds name as they were walking there dog, and the personal touch incites more active participation from others. Give a couple of kids $1 to look and tell them there is $50 if someone sees your bird and comes and gets you and you catch it. Kids tell on people that are hiding them also. Go to local schools and ask that they tell the kids in each class, 500-1000 kids eyes greatly improve your chances. Birds seem to like the golf course, talk to them personally and leave a flyer. Veterinarians: give them the band details and the contact of the national registry, some people working there may not know that the band is registered (helps educate them for other lost birds). Pet stores: Someone may bring your bird in but also ask them to keep an eye out for cage only buyers, most pet shops even ones that dont sell birds are familiar with the finders keepers attitude of some people. If there are bird breeders in your area, let them know you lost your bird, too. News Media & Internet Advertisement in the Lost & Found section of any newspapers in your area. See if you can sell them on a human interest story, same with the local TV News. The more people that hear about your parrot missing the better than chances of you getting it back. I got a front page newspaper story, and TV news, I wrote to forums and added my missing parrot to her youtube page. Not only did I get hundreds of messages of advice (and you will get it) I noticed a week later Tui was being blogged about (mostly as an example of what not to do with free flight .. but the personal shame and humiliation is worth the publicity). As much coverage as you can. An African Grey was found 40 miles from where I lived and someone had read the newspaper story and contacted me. Was not my Tui, but the word had spread. When I am walking along golf courses or areas I have not introduced myself, half the time people know about me. Local schools: Ask that they tell the kids in each class, 500-1000 kids eyes greatly improve your chances, give them flyers for each class so the kids know what to look for. Birds seem to like golf course, talk to them personally and leave a flyer. Animal Welfare Groups: Be sure to contact your local animal control, Humane Society and any parrot rescue groups in your area. Let them know you have lost your parrot and give them a contact number where they can get a hold of you if someone reports a found bird. You should already have there numbers listed and email addresses. Go in personally to as many as you can, call and follow up with an email. Many people saw a flyer at a Vets office and contacted me telling me of various websites I did not know about. Police dispatcher: Depends on the size of your city, but I have received several calls from the dispatcher after I asked that a note be placed on their board Postal Workers: Most cities have a delivery headquarters with an lunch room. Place your flyers up there, postal workers travel all over your city and are a way to have eyes everywhere. And Most Importantly: Be stubborn about finding your bird. Parrots are very adaptable and can live feral in many parts of the United States. Your best chance for getting your bird back is if you are proactive! Get out as much as you can in the areas you think it might be, follow up on calls of strange noises from people, always act excited and be thankful (even if it is a little old deaf blind women who swears she saw something), and call out your birds name. NEVER GIVE UP: Birds can live for days-weeks months, and even years after an escape. Never give up. Granted there will come a time when you can no longer spare the time to look as much as you did to start, and you need to move on. But stay in contact with people letting them know your still looking. Day 3 is when they get hungry and try to come in for food, they will go to just about any one at that time if they are tame. If you have taught your bird to be comfortable around many people it may speed up the approach time. Your flyers and conversations with people should include what to say or call, what food to use to entice contact, and how the bird may approach (head or arm etc). Tell people to put them in a pillow case, and have friends carrying pillowcases while looking, or small cages. Sometimes greys are caught by inexperienced holders and they don't know what to do with them. Outer Areas/Websites Check online resources
Other Information that is helpful (Some not pleasant)
The Emotional Roller Coaster You are going to feel a whole range of emotions, including but not limited too: sadness, grief, excitement, hope, self hatred, disappointment, urgency, helplessness, impatience, loathing, grief, anger, fear, and did I mention grief? Here is a link to an article on Pet grief http://www.rainbowbridge.com/Grief_Support_Center/Grief_Support/Grief.htm Everyone handles this differently, here is my bottom line. Accept that you are going to feel the emotions. If you want to, take a little time out to cry,, it is going to happen, at times you will howl like a baby. Have the sense of hope each time the phone rings with someone saying they hear noises, but above all else, keep looking. As it is said time heals all wounds, know that in a week you will feel better, in a month even better. Realize that most all the emotions you will experience are at there core selfish ones. You are grieving for what you lost, you hate yourself for what you did, you get annoyed at people not fulfilling your expectations of how they should help etc. This is completely normal and natural, it is part of the human experience BUT it does not put you in a mental place that is best for your bird. Feel like crap, accept that you will, but constantly keep going, remind yourself that what is important right now is you doing your best to find your bird, you can feel sorry for yourself later. Your allowed to feel sorry for yourself it is a normal human response, and decide you will do that later, for now, at this time your doing what is best for your bird, not what is best for you. This I know is just my opinion, it is not a pleasant one, but at the end of the first week of searching, you really do not want to be working out how much more you could have done if you were just not sobbing all the time. Cry when your out looking, dont use it as an excuse to roll up and do nothing. As a little self promotion, from my experience losing my bird I added two sessions to my Hypnosis site. They are 1) Grief and 2) Guilt. These sessions are so far the ones I am most proud of and they work, and they are worth the $13 I ask for them. At some point soon I will combine them into a Lost Pet session. These are available at www.mindfithypnosis.com.com The Grim reality of your Special Bird Your bird will ALWAYS BE SPECIAL TO YOU. We as humans love what we know, often inflating the value to us compared to other things. This is normal and natural, it is just what we do. In the same week my bird was lost China had an earthquake, which 3 weeks later estimates are over a million people looking for somewhere to live, and 90,000 plus dead. Is this a more important in the grand scheme of things in the real world? Of course it is. Does it matter to me as much as one parrot? No it does not! Getting Publicity The more that know the better Youtube/AOL/Google Video In addition, my last posting explaining my mistake and my feelings at the time, and even my crying trying to get through it, generated publicity. This was not my intention, my page was always just to share my experience with my parrot, and I saw no reason not to share the bad along with the good. But a lot of my publicity came from blogs using me as an example of what not to do. The shame and humiliation of bad press is nothing compared to the possibility of finding my lost companion. Many people found me and offered me good advice from this and not all of the internet comments about my situation were bad. The most important thing is that there are people and sites who specialize in lost parrots. Something I never even looked at until it happened to me. The people associated with these activities are extremely compassionate and if they find you will contact you. Much of the information I have presented in this document came from this source. Newspapers/TV News The newspaper and Local TV were owned by the same company so a TV News story was done as well. I do not feel the articles presented me in the best way possible, certainly the blog comments associated with story are mostly negative. But what do I care, it is publicity. I was notified about a parrot found 45 miles away because someone had read the paper. I am recognized going through peoples backyards because they have seen the story. Appeal to the reporters sense of loss, make the comparison that pets loss are as painful as a human to most people, Cry in front of them, feel the embarrassment and do it anyway. You wont remember the event in a week or so, you will regret not doing all you could for years to come.
Would a domestic parrot take to the trees or stay
low to the ground ? How quickly can a Domestic Parrot develop the muscles
to fly and control its flight? Is a parrot likely to talk, make noises or attempt
to fly after dark? Useful Websites
http://www.rainbowbridge.com/Grief_Support_Center/Grief_Support_Home.htm http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/ParrotBAS/ http://pets.groups.yahoo.com/group/bird-click/ http://www.likambo.com/ http://www.goodbirdinc.com/ Sample Poster
Lost African Grey Parrot Her name is Tui and she is greatly loved companion. Normally a great talker, but might be a little scared at the moment. If she is talking she has an Aussie Accent. Tui may try to land on your head, she is good at it, just stand still and she wont hurt you, but will get scared if you panic
Please call if you even THINK you have seen her, ANY TIME, as I have a much better chance of collecting her. Or notify the Humane Society if caught. To see and hear Tui what tui might be saying
Reward Offered
Andrew (702) XXX-XXXX
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